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The Velvet Hammer: How to Be Kind and Direct
One skill I've quietly developed over the years is what I call "velvet hammer" writing. It's the art of crafting letters, announcements, and directions that are simultaneously kind (the velvet) and direct (the hammer).
03-24-2026 10:45 AM - Comment(s)
Your Culture Lives in the Middle
You have the posters. Your mission statement is a masterpiece. Your organization has a culture manifesto. Yet, day after day, the way work actually happens tells a different story.
03-18-2026 03:22 PM - Comment(s)
Most Leadership Training is a Waste of Time and Money
Before any training begins, there should be a clear answer to one simple question: What will this person be able to do differently after the training?
03-11-2026 03:52 PM - Comment(s)
The Secret to Networking: Stop Trying to Get Something
I like to say my hobby is collecting people. It's a fun way of saying I genuinely enjoy networking.
03-04-2026 05:45 AM - Comment(s)
You Inherited a Weak Link. Now What?
You didn't choose them. But here you are. Maybe they were once a solid performer who got promoted one level too far. Maybe someone handed you the team and said "good luck" under their breath. Or maybe they really wanted the job you just got.
02-25-2026 11:11 AM - Comment(s)